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The Secret Life of Sunflowers—bringing Vincent van Gogh to the world
The Secret Life of Sunflowers: a gripping, inspiring novel based on the true story of Johanna Bonger, Vincent van Gogh’s sister-in-law
By Marta Molnar
There are many, many works from various media that focus on the artist Vincent van Gogh—books, movies, poems, songs, and of course prints of Van Gogh’s own artwork. The irony is that Vincent Van Gogh was not appreciated as an artist during his own lifetime. His brother Theo was not an artist, but he worked as an art dealer and made enough money to support his own family and his brother so that Vincent could concentrate on his artwork.
The Secret Life of Sunflowers is not about Vincent van Gogh. It tells of the efforts of his sister-in-law, Johanna Bonger van Gogh, to promote Vincent’s art and legacy after the death of both Vincent and shortly thereafter Theo. As a young widow, Johanna had to fight to even get recognized as capable of marketing Vincent’s art. She did this while caring for her young son and earning a living running a boarding house.
This is a dual timeline book. Emsley in our current day is an art auctioneer who faces residual gender discrimination in the art world. Because of the legacy of her bold and controversial Aunt Violet, Emsley pursues her personal and professional goals even in the face of the betrayal of her business partners who were formerly her best friend and her longtime romantic partner. Among other things, Emsley’s aunt bequeaths a diary and some old papers in Dutch to Emsley. They seem to hold secrets about Vincent van Gogh. Emsley has to dive into the meaning of these papers and an ugly small painting her aunt had saved. She accomplished all this while figuring out how to rescue her own business and fulfill her aunt’s final intentions.
The author of this book was intrigued with the story of Johanna, but she had great difficulty in finding information about Johanna in her research. She fleshed out the facts she discovered by adding interesting characters. Both timelines contain supportive friends—for Emsley and her aunt and for Johanna. These three are strong women, but having others come alongside made such a difference in their journeys. Emsley and Johanna both had difficult lives and had to push to make their ways in the world. Alternating between the two timelines was an effective technique as it relieved the building tension surrounding each protagonist.
Rating: 4/5
Category: Historical Fiction, Biographical Fiction
Notes: 1. #1 in the Light and Life Series
2. Includes discussion questions
Publication: July 19, 2022
Memorable Lines:
“Vincent says, If you hear a voice within say you cannot do something, then by all means do that thing, and that voice will be silenced.”
“Sunflowers mean gratitude to Vincent. He never loses faith.” I leaned against my husband and imagined an entire vast field of vibrant golden petals. Thousands of these flowers, unworried about the world, unafraid of the storms, turned as one in gratitude toward the sun.
If life was a rolling river, friendship was the life raft.
Jane Darrowfield and the Madwoman Next Door–kidnapping
Jane Darrowfield and the Madwoman Next Door
by Barbara Ross
If you want a solid mystery with good writing and a well-crafted plot, if you are in search of a cozy mystery that has tension, but is not too dark, give Barbara Ross’ Jane Darrowfield and the Madwoman Next Door a try. A young lawyer seeks out her next door neighbor Jane, whose business cards read “Professional Busybody,” to help her determine the cause of some unusual symptoms. Jane, retired from her first career, has helped informally with a murder investigation before, but her real focus is smaller, neighborhood problems. She charges a fee that is high enough to discourage those who are just irritated over a frivolous situation.
The young neighbor’s problem is sufficiently bizarre to attract Jane’s interest, especially when she disappears the next day. In her investigation, Jane uncovers a sad past for this woman who is an overcomer. There are a lot of potential suspects, and as an older woman, Jane is not shy about getting in their faces with her questions or finding her way around guard dog secretaries. There are surprises along the way and the plot is not simple. Jane and the reader learn together about the suspects with various ones narrowed down and then eliminated…or not. The kidnapper seemed suspicious to me early on, but so did a lot of other people. The ending wrapped things up well.
I was unable to find plans for a third book in the series, but I hope there will be one. Meanwhile, I think I would enjoy reading other books by this author who will be publishing the eleventh book in her Maine Clambake Mystery Series in June.
I received a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.
Rating: 5/5
Category: Mystery
Notes: Always in search of a good, clean mystery with a plot Agatha Christie would be proud of, I took fellow blogger Jay’s advice and read this book. He also suggested that I might enjoy it more if I read the first in the series. I have requested it from my library, but didn’t want to wait for it. I am happy to announce that I had no problem reading and enjoying the second book in the series as a standalone.
Publication: December 28, 2021—Kensington
Memorable Lines:
As for her son, Jonathan, he and Jane had not spoken for more than ten years. It was a source of daily heartbreak for her. Parenting was the one area in her life where she had most desperately wanted to succeed. And the one where she had most spectacularly failed.
He was a medium-height man and very square. Square head emphasized by close-cropped brown hair. Square shoulders emphasized by the cut of his sports jacket. Even his manicured fingernails were squared. Not a bad-looking man, despite the squareness.
“But embracing a new way of life means giving up an old vision of how our lives will be. It’s hard to let go, but it’s necessary to do so to live in and enjoy a new reality.”
Under the Magnolias–a darkness of the mind
Under the Magnolias
by T. I. Lowe
Dave Foster is a tobacco farmer and the pastor of the church he fondly refers to as the First Riffraff of Magnolia. He has a large family including two sets of twins, a mentally challenged son, and another who is physically disabled. His wife Edith is a loving mother who somehow manages her husband’s dark times and keeps the family happy. The main character is the oldest daughter Austin, and the story is related from her point of view as she finds herself at the age of fourteen having to become a mother to her six siblings and walk the fine line of respect for her father while acting as a buffer between him and the other children. She works to maintain his standing in the community and keep the tobacco farm running.
Under the Magnolias is very much a character driven story as Austin struggles and sacrifices for others. She is a very intelligent young lady who puts aside her dreams to help her family survive. Unfortunately her father’s dark times become deeper and more frequent and his outbursts more violent. A teenager, Austin doesn’t really know how to deal with her father’s mental issues or get assistance.
Help does come in the form of the mayor’s handsome son. Although Austin won’t let him get close because she is driven to maintain family secrets, he continues to stand by her. Others in their little church and her siblings are important to the story as they all suffer from the occasions when Dave’s mental illness surfaces and bubbles over.
This book is very well-written. In terms of emotional impact, it is hard at times to read. The author, T. I. Lowe, puts the reader right in the middle of the struggles waiting, as Austin does, in the good times for the other shoe to drop. “It was too good. Too shiny. Too normal. No matter how much I wished, prayed, begged, I knew this season wouldn’t last.”
The story takes place from 1980 through 1988. There is a final chapter that relates how life works out for all of the characters. It makes a fitting conclusion because over the course of the book the reader has gotten to know each of them, understanding why they are the way they are. The pacing is excellent with about two chapters per year presenting cumulative snapshots rather than blow-by-blow descriptions. There is an authentic South Carolina flavor in both plot and language. I highly recommend Under the Magnolias as a tale whose characters resonate and linger long after the final page.
I received a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.
Rating: 5/5
Category: General Fiction (Adult), Women’s Fiction
Notes: Clean—no inappropriate language, sex, or violence
Publication: May 4, 2021—Tyndale House Publishers
Memorable Lines:
Looking through the innocent lens of adolescence, those happier days were perfection. Sadly, they had an expiration date just like those snack cakes. Happiness staled and nothing was pleasing after that. But just like the expired cakes in a meager season, we had no other choice but to stomach whatever life tossed our way next.
I figured it was a blessing that she could pretend something didn’t happen, but we would both learn later in life that pretending something away was no better than constantly dwelling on it. Both produced impactful wounds that tended to fester in other parts of living.
“Honey, the living creep me out. Not the dead.” He picked up a cosmetic brush and touched it to Mrs. Fannie’s pink cheek. “The living can be cruel, judgmental, quick to complain, and slow to please. The dead never yell or cuss you out. Or call you ugly names.” There was such a sadness to his gentle voice.
Late Bloomers: The Power of Patience in a World Obsessed with Early Achievement
Late Bloomers: The Power of Patience in a World Obsessed with Early Achievement
by Rich Karlgaard
I don’t think I have ever read an introduction as fascinating as Rich Karlgaard’s in Late Bloomers. With phrases like “trickle down societal madness for early achievement” he puts the reader into his world and his viewpoint. It’s not that he is opposed to the young people with scores of 800 on their SAT who create fantastic wealth in their early twenties. He does resent what our culture’s adoration of them does to the rest of us, those whose potential is downgraded because our star doesn’t rise at the same pace or shine as brightly.
In Late Bloomers we are brought to an understanding of the history and psychology of the conveyer belt systems of education and business that have led us to the current sad state of affairs. Karlgaard explains how late bloomers struggle in this early achievement focused society and how society suffers for not valuing late bloomers. This book is replete with examples—J.K. Rowling, Einstein, and the author himself, to name a few—of late bloomers. It also carefully examines the available psychological research and what it tells us about late bloomers. A large portion of the book is devoted to sharing what late bloomers and society can do to make the whole system function more successfully.
As a teacher, I applaud Karlgaard’s revelation of the background of our harmful testing culture designed to create cogs in an industrial wheel. As a parent, I agree with his theories about development occurring in different ways and times for individuals. I am especially intrigued by the promotion of a “gap year” (or two) for young people, giving them extra time for brain development before they are expected to “adult.” I can see the need for viewing 18-25 as a stage of life when, for most, that important brain maturation in the prefrontal cortex is still in process.
The main body of the book is addressed to the late bloomer, which Karlgaard argues is most of us. It is full of research studies which interestingly support his advice to the late bloomer—how to survive in a world that disparages late blooming and how to, in fact, bloom despite a society that does not value late blooming. The introduction and first three chapters of this book should be required reading for every teacher, administrator, policy maker, business entrepreneur, parent, and concerned citizen. Did I leave anyone out? After that, most will want to finish the book. Especially the late bloomers out there, the ones who have not yet “found themselves” or met their full potential.
I would like to extend my thanks to netgalley.com and to Crown Publishing (Currency) for giving me the opportunity to read this book in exchange for an honest review.
Rating: 5/5
Category: Self-Help, Education, Parenting
Notes: Rich Karlgaard, self-proclaimed late bloomer, is the publisher of Forbes Media, an author, and the founder of several businesses.
Publication: April 16, 2019—Crown Publishing (Currency)
Memorable Lines:
Being seen as a potential late bloomer was once a mark of vitality, patience, and pluck. Nowadays, more and more, it is seen as a defect (there must be a reason you started slowly, after all) and a consolation prize. This is an awful trend, since it diminishes the very things that make us human—our experiences, our resilience, and our lifelong capacity to grow.
Just when we should be encouraging kids to dream big, take risks, and learn from life’s inevitable failures, we’re teaching them to live in terror of making the slightest mistake.
…social media has now become our most toxic cultural mirror.
Reducing education to test preparation jeopardizes the quality of curricula and the craft of teaching. It drains education of humanity.
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